Rules of dating after a divorce


20-Nov-2017 11:48

This email got me thinking about the many many questions men and women have when dating after divorce.

It's kind of like hanging out with your platonic female divorced friend and hearing her perspective on your divorce and your love life issues. If it's crowded, it may actually be a good idea to walk in front a little.

Remember, that dating is part of the process of moving on.

If it's been so long since you've been in the game that you still think Netflix and chill means watching Netflix and well, chilling, it's fair to fear the world of swiping right and left and up and down.

Putting down your ex or rehashing old hurts will only keep you in a negative and depressed state if mind. A leader, however, creates value because he/she has a full life, his time is scarce.

to your female friends for company and support, but stay clear of "male bashing." Keep the conversations positive. Trying one new thing per month will give you confidence in yourself and you never know who you might meet. It is a short-lived ego boost for the hunted, but ultimately not attractive (you're too easy to get).

Not necessarily, but if you've been out of circulation for a while, the following tips will help you navigate the waters more easily.

From the authors of "Not Your Mother's Divorce" Excerpt from "Not Your Mother’s Divorce", a book offering insight and practical advice to women facing a divorce early in life.If you follow these dating tips for divorced men and women, you might even realize that dating is fun and liberating.